I am not an Object.

I do not enjoy getting catcalled.    I do not want to be called "baby" when  I walk down the street.   I do not deserve to have to feel uncomfortable when I am just walking minding my own business and I get repeatedly called on by two guys to come up with them and drink.     I do not deserve to have sexual comments made about me by two complete strangers.    I do not desire to hear how some guy who has seen me for 2 seconds wants me.   I do not know you.     Why would I want to drink a beer with you?   Who are you?   Why would you want to invite me up there to drink with you?   I am overweight, I don't look that pretty, I'm not desirable by today's standards.   I'm just the only one out walking on the road at 11:30 that night.   So when I ignore you because as a lone female walking at night, when you're making sexual comments and offering me alcohol, I have every right to ignore you.    You seem preditory.    Out to get me.   You seem to be a safety hazard.    I do not deserve to be called a bitch when I feel very uncomfortable by everything you've done and I have not been given the opportunity to say hi back.     This article, by Anne Gus from Thought Catalog, in her 5th point is why a a lot of guys become undatable - at least in this girls humble opinion.