Saturday, October 27, 2012

Affirmative Action

An Interesting read.

Discussion: Should Affirmative Action Be Legal?

Oct. 22, 2012
It’s frustrating being a person of color on a college campus because people often assume you’re only there because you’re black/etc. You slipped through the cracks and obviously you only got in to fulfill a quota that will make the university look absolutely wonderful in the college rankings. No matter how many brilliant things you say in your Political Economy seminar, some people will assume you’re just an affirmative action case.
Or maybe you are a person of color and you and a white BFF applied to the same school and you got in but they didn’t. It gets awkward, because now they will joke that obviously you got in because you’re black, you spot stealer! But where do these anxieties about “spots” being stolen come from?
In 1874, Edward Bouchet became the first African American to graduate from Yale and the first African American to get a Ph.D. That and he was one of only 20 people in America to hold a Ph.D. in physics, period. Try to top that. In 1954 segregated schools were slammed as inherently unequal, a violation of the Fourteenth Amendment. By 1961 President John F. Kennedy signed an executive order stipulating government agencies to take “affirmative action” to hire people without regard to their race, creed, color, or national origin. These laws were meant in part to undo generations of discrimination and bias but also to afford equal opportunity to people who have been disadvantaged. But are they still needed?
Today, however, Affirmative Action has failed in nearly every state where it has come come up for ballot: California, Nebraska, Washington and Arizona all have constitutional bans on race or gender-based preferences in hiring and in schools. Students who were rejected from elite universities like the University of Michigan, Princeton, and the University of Texas at Austin have sued for racial discrimination, which to me is just kind of like, you didn’t get in, GET OVER IT. Fisher v. University of Texas is before the Supreme Court right now, a case that could ban or uphold affirmative action nationwide.
What do you think? Should there be preferences in hiring and college admissions? Even when there is diversity on campus or at the workplace, do we interact with it? What difference does diversity make?

Friday, October 26, 2012

Alternative Horror Movies

So 'tis the season for horror movies,  and Thought Catalog had a wonderful post about horrifying movies that aren't actually horror movies.  

Here it is for you via!!

Horrifying Movies That Aren’t Actual Horror Movies

Oct. 22, 2012
It’s late October and you’re in the mood for a good horror movie, but you’ve seen all the classics like a hundred times and you’re skeptical to take a chance on Paranormal Activity 9…sound familiar? Well, the following movies may not be horror movies per se, but they’re dark, disturbing, tense, and guaranteed to freak you out for one reason or another.

Martha Marcy May Marlene (2011)

Actual Genre: Drama/Thriller (all genre listings according to IMDB)
10 Words or Less Summary: Woman suffers PTSD from time spent with mysterious cult.
Why it’s horrifying: Martha Marcy May Marlene is one of the tensest, most claustrophobic films I’ve ever seen. It depicts Martha’s readjustment to a normal life at the luxurious lake house owned by her sister and her sister’s new husband. However, we constantly flash back to her traumatizing time with a cult controlled by a sinister, Manson-esque leader. At times, we’re not sure which narrative we’re in, and the result is that the audience is always on edge, terrified that these worlds might collide. Martha Marcy May Marlene is deliberately paced, but it’s more than worth it for the willing viewer. Most shocking of all, it features a terrific lead performance from Mary-Kate & Ashley kin Elizabeth Olsen!
Don’t take my word for it: “The horror aesthetic of B-movie producer Val Lewton — that the unseen is more frightening than the seen — is carried to a merciless extreme in this unnerving debut feature by writer-director Sean Durkin.” J.R. Jones, Chicago Reader

Black Swan (2010)

Actual Genre: Drama/Mystery/Thriller
10 Words or Less Summary: World-class ballerina suffers psychotic break training for new role.
Why it’s horrifying: Incredibly talented director Darren Aronofsky created perhaps his most taut and unsettling film yet in Black Swan, and that’s saying something since he also brought us Requiem for a Dream and Pi. Portman is magnetic, the imagery shocking, the sexuality tormented, the atmosphere anxious and nerve-wracking. The good swan/bad swan stuff is pretty silly, but the film’s tension is dead-serious.
Don’t take my word for it: “The film picks at our deepest anxieties — injury, disfigurement, loss of a coveted job, loss of identity, loss of sanity. In most fright films, danger lurks in the shadows. Here it’s grinning from a mirror.” Colin Covert, Minneapolis Star Tribune

Wendy and Lucy (2008)

Actual Genre: Drama
10 Words or Less Summary: Unemployed woman’s car breaks down, stranding her in small-town, USA.
Why it’s horrifying: Wendy and Lucy is a minimalist nightmare of modern American fears: jobless and quickly running out of money, Wendy (Michelle Williams) embarks on a road trip to Alaska where she’s heard work is available. But when her car breaks down and her dog (and only ally) disappears, Wendy’s life completely unravels. The film, a stark reminder that everyday people can still fall through the cracks, is full of simple, realistic horrors: showering in the sink of a gas station bathroom, waiting in line to deposit empty cans, running into a potentially dangerous drifter. Heads up: Wendy and Lucy, though powerful, is a slow-burn. You’ll have to be patient with this one.
Don’t take my word for it: “The movie, for all its morose impassivity, is beautiful and haunting.” David Denby, The New Yorker

Capturing the Friedmans (2003)

Actual Genre: Documentary/Biography
10 Words or Less Summary: Really weird family fractures after accusations of child molestation.
Why it’s horrifying: First of all, though the Friedmans are seemingly just a mild-mannered Long Island family, they’re actually really freaking strange (potential pedophilia aside). The film, told mostly via home videos, shows them as cut off from the rest of the world; they’re self-enclosure leads to an odd sense of humor and ignored pathologies (Freud would have had a field day with these guys). However, when father Arnold and son Jesse become embroiled in a child molestation investigation, the home videos begin to chronicle the family’s frightening disintegration. In fact, even when compared to the sensational accusations, it is the Friedman’s crumbling family dynamic that emerges as the film’s most gripping aspect.
Don’t take my word for it: “The film, which won the Grand Jury Prize at Sundance 2003, is disturbing and haunting…” Roger Ebert, Chicago Sun-Times

Inland Empire (2006)

Actual Genre: David Lynch Movie (IMDB claims “Drama/Mystery/Thriller”)
10 Words or Less Summary: Defies summary.
Why it’s horrifying: Well, it’s a David Lynch movie, for starters. Lynch is a master at exposing the horrific underbelly of everyday life, and all of his movies have disturbed me in one way or another. The main reason I chose Inland Empire (Tagline: “A woman in trouble”) from the bunch is because it was very much neglected at the time of its release, unlike the more iconic Blue Velvet or Mulholland Drive. Featuring anthropomorphic rabbits (a recurring theme in this list), nonlinear narratives, odd musical numbers, laugh tracks, and lots of prostitutes, Inland Empire is inaccessible, disorienting, and thought-provoking.
Don’t take my word for it: “Lynch serves up enough irrationally disturbing images for 100 classic Asian horror films, and the bedraggled Dern is so overflowingly open that you can’t dismiss the movie as an arty exercise.” David Edelstein, New York Magazine

Taxi Driver (1976)

Actual Genre: Drama
10 Words or Less Summary: Taxi driver has a psychotic break in 70s NYC.
Why it’s horrifying: Although Shutter Island was touted as Scorsese’s first true horror movie, Taxi Driver is about as grim as it gets. Scorsese (justifiably) depicts 70s NYC as Hell on Earth, lingering on the smoke flowing out from under manhole covers and the unforgiving light cast by “XXX” neon signs. De Niro’s Travis Bickle (when he’s not cleaning jizz off his taxi’s upholstery) is the ultimate antihero; dangerous, delusional, and suicidal, he’s eventually celebrated for going on a murder spree.
Don’t take my word for it: Take the word of, like, anybody else. It’s Taxi Driver.

Take Shelter (2011)

Actual Genre: Drama/Thriller
10 Words or Less Summary: Midwestern engineer builds shelter after experiencing apocalyptic visions.
Why It’s Horrifying: Michael Shannon is crazy intense in the role of a family man quickly and maddeningly descending into delirium. If he is going crazy, that is — part of the film’s power is that we’re never entirely sure if Shannon’s character is losing his mind or if he’s actually some kind of visionary oracle or soothsayer. Either way, we can’t help but sympathize with his family as we watch him give up everything — his job, their friends, their savings — to construct a shelter for a storm that may exist only in his mind.
Don’t take my word for it: “It is a quiet, relentless exploration of the latent (and not so latent) terrors that bedevil contemporary American life, a horror movie that will trouble your sleep not with visions of monsters but with a more familiar dread.” A.O. Scott, New York Times

Donnie Darko (2001)

Actual Genre: Drama/Mystery/Sci-Fi
10 Words or Less Summary: Teenager is plagued by visions of anthropomorphic bunny.
Why It’s Horrifying: You mean besides Frank, the hideous, gnarled rabbit that haunts Jake Gyllenhaal’s dreams and talks to him about the end of the world? Richard Kelly’s debut film is a wild maze of unsettling themes and dark imagery. Not everything fits together — in some ways, the plot starts to fold into itself (it actually becomes more convoluted and less clear upon further examination). But the recurring images (rabbits, clowns, masks, clocks) are iconic and powerful, and the narrative is so mysterious and unusual that you don’t mind if it doesn’t all come together. Donnie Darko is a revelation: an eccentric, remarkable idea perfectly realized.
Don’t take my word for it: “A wondrous, moodily self-involved piece of work that employs X-Files magic realism to galvanize what might have been a routine tale of suburban teen angst.” J. Hoberman, Village Voice

Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas (1998)

Actual Genre: Adventure/Drama (I guess?)
10 Words or Less Summary: Journalist and lawyer descend into druggy madness during Vegas trip.
Why it’s horrifying: Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas is a mesmerizing bad trip of a movie, recreating the gonzo journalism of Hunter S. Thompson in all its self-destructive, debased glory. The film has almost no plot, but it’s not mindless; it is a terrific exploration of the power of drugs, the psyche of the addict, and the death of a generation. After placing you in close quarters with these two completely depraved addicts, the film gradually assimilates their subjective experience and forces you to see the world through their eyes. If that’s not horrifying, I don’t know what is — maybe an LSD-poisoned Benicio Del Toro sitting fully clothed in a bath tub and wielding an awfully large knife.
Don’t take my word for it: “As Gilliam and Thompson saw it, the dreaded hangover after the hopeful, idealistic bliss-out of the ’60s was pitched somewhere between gallows humor, existential mania, and the unrelenting horror of not only what we had lost but what we had traded it in for.” Chris Cabin, Slant Magazine

Eyes Wide Shut (1999)

Actual Genre: Drama/Mystery/Thriller
10 Words or Less Summary: Married man explores sexual deviancy, occult.
Why it’s horrifying: The Shining may be Stanley Kubrick’s only straight-up horror film, but nearly every one of his movies possesses horror or menace of one kind or another. Eyes Wide Shut is particularly disturbing, a revealing ride through the depths of one man’s sexual psyche. After his wife (Nicole Kidman) recounts a sex fantasy, Dr. Bill Harford (Tom Cruise) embarks on a night-long sexual odyssey that culminates in a masked orgy where his uninvited presence is not appreciated. The orgy scene, full of dread and foreboding, is one of the strangest and most ominous I’ve ever seen.
Let’s just say this movie is responsible for me taking “Masked Orgy” off my bucket list.
Don’t take my word for it: “Kubrick’s great achievement in the film is to find and hold an odd, unsettling, sometimes erotic tone for the doctor’s strange encounters.” Roger Ebert, Chicago Sun-Times

Thursday, October 25, 2012

Things only you worry about

So As you know, I enjoy reading Thought catalog so very much.

And I read this pots, and its true only you really care about these things.  Because unless you look at someone doing something in a very weird manner on this list, you're good to go.

So here it is. :)


23 Things No One Cares About But You

Oct. 18, 2012
1. Thinking that the people watching you cross the street from inside their cars are judging your face, clothing or the way you walk
2. Worrying what people think of your Facebook cover photo
3. Thinking you’re causing sidewalk congestion by moving to the side to check your phone even though you’re not sure what else to do
4. Shame that you messed up the dinner you made for yourself last night, meaning you’re not ready to be an adult
5. Worrying people are wondering what’s up when you change seats on the subway, or think you’re a snob or a jerk or judging them
6. Thinking people are still not sure about you after a stupid joke you made a zillion years ago
7. Accidentally making eye contact with a stranger more than once, meaning you’re a creep
8. That the shirt you’re wearing doesn’t fit exactly right, but still looks okay
9. What’s in your Netflix queue and what it says about you. You’re a big, burly man and you like “Period pieces featuring strong women from the 1980s,” so what?
10. How many times you coughed lightly during a conversation
11. That there are small chips in your manicure so you’re not classy
12. The loud sound it made when your pencil snapped in the public or college library that one time, disturbing everyone’s work
13. If you stared too long at someone’s dog as they walked by. Do they think you’re going to like, steal their dog now?
14. That you wore the same dress twice around the same people, and they might think you never change clothes
15. If you haven’t seen the latest Breaking Bad episode or ever watched Mad Men and you think people will find you out of touch or boring
16. That you, coincidentally, couldn’t hang out a few times in a row with the same person and now they definitely hate you
17. Accidentally saying “you too” when a server says, “Enjoy your meal.”
18. That you like sports, or don’t like sports. That you have a favorite team or don’t have a favorite team. That’s all on your own time.
19. How nerdy or not nerdy or cool and uncool you were in high school. It’s over, no one cares about high school anymore.
20. That tiny pimple only you can see on your cheek, looking somehow HUGE to you in the mirror meaning maybe your mind is playing tricks on you or maybe you can’t actually tell what is noticeable and what isn’t
21. The hole in your sweater under your armpit
22. If all this worrying is manifesting outside your mind and somehow physically visible on you and to other people
23. When you close your door kind of conspicuously and now you’re worried people think maybe you’re doing it so you can look at porn or masturbate or do something freaky and weird 

Wednesday, October 24, 2012

You will not be forgotten.

This is true about many people  :)  There are so many people who affect your life.

via

 I Will Not Forget You

Oct. 15, 2012
Time often passes by us in what feels like bursts of wind. It sweeps up everything around us in a kind of blind rush, moving and eroding patterns before we can catch our bearings. By the time it has passed — a month, a year, a relationship — it’s hard to even tell what has actually happened. And it isn’t until things have settled back down, into a place where they can be recognized and counted, that we start to feel the full weight of what has changed. Time with you was a burst of wind, and when I think of it, from memory alone I want to pull my sweater tighter around me.
I can’t say exactly what makes certain people more difficult than others, but there are undeniably those we love who refuse to fit into any shape we could possibly cut out for them. Their whole being seems frustrating, elusive, incompatible. And with you, there was always a palpable difficulty. I was a child again, playing with my wooden block toys, attempting to insert a triangle block into a square-shaped cut-out. It never fit, and yet I didn’t possess the perspective or the self-confidence to understand that the shapes simply didn’t coincide. For so long, I wondered what I was doing wrong, trying over and over again to make the impossible happen.
You taught me many things about myself, about what it means to love and care even in the face of cold indifference. There were glimpses of compassion and understanding, sure, but I have no doubts as to the dynamics of our interactions. I was always chasing, and you barely had to move to stay out of my reach. Those moments of affection, without which the whole ordeal would have seemed worthless, became like tiny flecks of gold found in near-endless piles of soot and rubble. If I could only keep digging, I thought, I would eventually uncover something beautiful — something I needed to believe existed between us.
I never did, of course. There was never a deeper level to our story than what you allowed on the surface. In that way, I admit that you were decent. You were up-front, and never explicitly promised more than you would ultimately be prepared to give. It was almost entirely me, weaving elaborate tapestries of double-speak and hidden meanings that spelled out only the things I wanted to hear. There was nothing I couldn’t misinterpret for my own desire, my own need to be needed by someone in whom I invested so deeply.
But the wind blew past us, the summer over more quickly than I’d ever seen one go before. There was a moment we were sitting on a porch, listening to cicadas and talking about keeping in touch, and then it was gone. Our hands were touching, and then they weren’t. If I had known that moment would be over so soon, I would have probably said goodbye then. I would have liked to go out with a little dignity, a little closure — not drawn out over months of barely speaking, of me attaining perpetually higher limits of humiliation in my refusal to accept the truth. To have confronted your unavailability head-on would have been a ripping off of the emotional band-aid, one I only thought I wanted to spend the cool autumn months gently tugging at.
We didn’t speak; we didn’t keep in touch. For a long time, I remained convinced that this period of distance was a strange emotional coma from which you would suddenly awake. You would tell me that you were sorry to have been so weird, that you had always loved me, that I had always been right. I suppose I have watched enough movies in my life to believe that no story, if unsatisfying, is ever at its very end. The tiny flame of hope that this may all have been a petulant phase in your otherwise limitless capacity for love and understanding was perhaps more painful than the harsh finality of your disinterest. To keep grasping at ever-slimmer chances of a happy ending was frustrating, and then ridiculous, and then profoundly sad. I would have liked to just go straight to sad.
After our time flew past me, the passing of months and years became more soft, more understandable. Time once again resembled the lazy river that it had always been, not catching me in its refusal to slow down and let me breathe. The months turned into years, and every last bit of dust from our strange little hurricane had settled. My thoughts of us had become — have become — tiny vignettes that pass in front of my eyes only when faced with a direct reference to you. And they no longer carry a sting, or a turn of the stomach, or even a remote desire to reach out. Life is better (as I had always imagined it might be) when I am surrounded by people of whose love I am completely sure.
I will not forget you, though. I don’t think that you particularly deserve my memory, nor do I flatter myself into believing that you return my sense of vague wistfulness. There is no part of me that wants to return to the limbo I existed in for so long, or even the often-imagined parallel universe in which you reciprocated my feelings to the letter. I do, however, want to remember what it feels like to be hurt, to want, to need something so desperately only to find out that your life is perfectly fine without it. As much as the little scar on my knee will always remind me to watch out when I am running, yours on my heart will teach me to be kind. Because I know what it feels like to be cast aside with indifference, and I know that it’s a pain from which the body itself takes a long time to recover. You will live in my mind as a cautionary tale, a fable of how much damage words can do — especially when they are insincere. And though I am not nostalgic for what we did have, I am hopeful about life being filled with everything we didn’t.

Tuesday, October 23, 2012

99 things you should have exerienced on the internet

Here is the list [with links] to 99 things we should have seen on the internet.

Monday, October 22, 2012

love quotes and pictures

Here is a place to find  love quotes and pictures.  :)

Right here.

another one

here


humor quotes here

or here  ;)

Sunday, October 21, 2012

top 10 tech concepts you always wished to know about

Once again i have a lovely site in my bookmark and wish to share the information with you.



Top 10 Tech Concepts You Always Wanted To Learn About (But Never Did)

We're busy people, and even the most savvy of us sometimes just don't have the time to learn about every odd and end in the tech world. Here are some of our favorite tech explainers on things you probably hear a lot about, but never really knew.

10. Net Neutrality

Top 10 Tech Concepts You Always Wanted To Learn About (But Never Did)It's a subject that only crops up from time to time—usually when new legislation is being pushed through or a tech company has done something really stupid—but it's an important thing to know about in today's age of ubiquitous internet. If you still aren't sure what net neutrality is—or even if you have a rough idea but aren't an expert—check out our introduction to net neutrality and what it means for you.

9. The Windows Registry

Top 10 Tech Concepts You Always Wanted To Learn About (But Never Did)Many Windows users know of the fabled registry, though fear it because of its cryptic (and powerful) nature. However, for those that understand how it works, it can be an invaluable tool. Check out our explainer and mythbuster on the Windows registry, and then be sure to check out our top 10 favorite registry tweaks to really make it work for you.

8. Android Task Killers

Top 10 Tech Concepts You Always Wanted To Learn About (But Never Did)Android task killers were useful tools back in the very early days of Android, but nowadays they actually do more harm than good—yet cellphone manufacturers still recommend them to new users all the time. Read up on what Android task killers actually do, and why you shouldn't use them on your phone. You might be surprised at what you find. Android isn't perfect, but traditional Task Killers aren't the answer (though we list some alternative tools that will help you in that explainer).

7. SSL Encryption (Also Known as HTTPS)

Top 10 Tech Concepts You Always Wanted To Learn About (But Never Did)You've probably noticed that some sites use https:// instead of http:// in their web addresses, but maybe you don't know what that actually means. Maybe you know that it encrypts your data for better security, but you don't really know what it's protecting you from. Either way, read up on what HTTPS is and why you should care about it on sites like Facebook, and once you do, be sure to check out browser extensions like HTTPS everywhere to get it enabled on as many sites as possible.

6. What "4G" Really Means

Top 10 Tech Concepts You Always Wanted To Learn About (But Never Did)This new "4G" phenomenon that's sweeping the nation is full of hype, but not very much real info. No one really says what 4G is or how fast it actually is—they just tell you it's something you want. We've talked about everything you need to know about 4G, including whether it's worth upgrading your phone for. Even if you thought you understood the basics behind 4G, you might be surprised at what you find.

5. The Difference Between Lossless and Lossy Music

Top 10 Tech Concepts You Always Wanted To Learn About (But Never Did)You may or may not think a lot about the "bitrate" of your music, but the argument of whether bitrate actually matters has raged for quite a while. We break down exactly what bitrate means, how lossless music compares to "lossy" music, and whether it's something you should worry about. If you decide lossless music might be for you, you might also want to check out our guide to managing multiple music libraries, which can be a great help to those with both high- and low-bitrate files.

4. 64-Bit vs. 32-Bit Operating Systems

Top 10 Tech Concepts You Always Wanted To Learn About (But Never Did)If you've reinstalled Windows or Linux anytime recently, you were likely given the option to choose between 64-bit and 32-bit versions. In a nutshell, if you have 4GB of RAM or more, you'll want to go 64-bit—but if you want to know why this is the case, check out our guide to 64-bit vs. 32-bit operating systems. And, if you aren't sure whether you even need more than 4GB of RAM, we've got you covered with an answer there too.

3. Proper Windows Maintenance

Top 10 Tech Concepts You Always Wanted To Learn About (But Never Did)Windows maintenance myths have been around since what seems like the beginning of time, which can leave you very confused as to what you actually need to do to your computer to keep it running in tip top shape. We've mentioned a few of the most important maintenance tasks you should perform, as well as some of the myths that might seem good, but can actually slow you down. Peruse our Hive Five on the best all-in-one Windows tools, while you're at it. When you're done reading, you should know enough that you'll never have to reinstall Windows from scratch ever again.

2. Viruses, Trojans, Worms, and Other Malware

Top 10 Tech Concepts You Always Wanted To Learn About (But Never Did)Windows malware: it's a burden many Windows users have to shoulder, yet something most of them know nothing at all about. If that sounds like you (or someone you know), we recommend learning the difference between viruses, trojans, worms, and other malware to get a better idea of what you're up against. You'll also want to check out these nine common myths and misconceptions about viruses, and then get yourself some good antivirus protection (which you shouldn't need to pay for since Microsoft's tools are good enough).

1. Wi-Fi and Networking

Top 10 Tech Concepts You Always Wanted To Learn About (But Never Did)With the internet as ubiquitous as it is today, networking is an essential part of any computer user's setup, yet so many of us are completely lost when we actually have to configure the networks in our home. We've gone through everything you need to know about routers, Wi-Fi performance, and making the most our of your network in our "Know Your Network" night school, so you'll never be puzzled by that router configuration page ever again. While you're at it, you might want to check out the many things that can lead to bad Wi-Fi coverage and how to fix them—you'll be glad you did.